Built to Last

Building Relationships That Stand the Test of Time

with Dr. Temi and Pst Abi Odejide

10 Weeks. 10 Live Virtual Sessions. One Intentional Journey.

First Cohort Begins the Second Week of January 2027

Biblically grounded. Psychologically informed. Practically applied.

Dr. Temi and Pst Abi Odejide, facilitators of Built to Last

Great relationships do not just happen. They are built.

Love may bring two people together. But building a relationship that remains healthy, intimate and resilient through the changing seasons of life requires more than love.

  • It requires understanding.
  • It requires self-awareness.
  • It requires communication.
  • It requires emotional maturity.
  • It requires the ability to navigate difference, conflict and change.
  • And above all, it requires intentionality.

Built to Last is an immersive 10-week live online relationship coaching experience with Dr. Temi and Pst Abi Odejide, created to equip you with the insight, tools and practical frameworks to build relationships that do not merely begin well, but have what it takes to last well.

A Special Founding Cohort Offer

The founding cohort allocation has now been taken. Registrations continue at the standard programme investment shown below.

Foundation
£197
Covenant
£347
per couple
Legacy
£797
per couple

Who is Built to Last for?

Whether you are preparing for a future relationship, intentionally building the one you have, or strengthening a marriage that has already travelled some distance, Built to Last meets you where you are and helps you build from there.

Single

Build before you begin.

Your relationship education should not begin after you say “I do.”

Understand yourself. Recognise patterns. Develop emotional intelligence. Learn what healthy relationships actually require. Discover how to choose wisely and how to become equipped for the kind of relationship you hope to build.

Do not wait until you are in a relationship to learn how relationships work.

Do not just prepare to find the right person. Prepare to become the right partner.

Dating or Engaged

Build with intention.

Chemistry can start a relationship. It cannot sustain one.

Go beyond attraction and learn how to truly understand each other, communicate effectively, navigate differences, create emotional safety, establish healthy boundaries and build the kind of intimacy that deepens rather than diminishes with time.

Do not just plan for the wedding. Prepare for the marriage.

Married

Strengthen what you have built.

You do not have to wait until your marriage is in crisis to invest in it.

Perhaps you are doing well but know there is another level of intimacy available. Perhaps life has become busy and you have slowly drifted. Perhaps you are repeatedly having the same arguments. Or perhaps your marriage has entered a difficult season and you are asking how to find your way back to each other.

Wherever you are, Built to Last gives you the insight, language and practical tools to understand what is happening beneath the surface and intentionally build forward.

Because staying together and building well are not necessarily the same thing.

What will we build together

Over 10 live sessions, we will explore the principles, patterns and practical skills that help relationships endure and flourish.

You will learn how to better understand yourself and your partner, communicate beyond words, build emotional safety and trust, navigate differences, handle conflict more constructively, deepen intimacy and create healthier patterns for the future.

This is not simply information about relationships. It is an opportunity to change how you do relationships.

You will not leave with a formula for a perfect relationship. You will leave with something far more useful: greater clarity, better language, practical tools and a framework for intentionally building something that lasts.

Two people sitting together at a table with an open workbook

Programme options

Two streams. One destination.

Built to Last has been intentionally designed so that you can participate as an individual or as a couple.

Foundation

Individual Stream

£197

 

For single adults and individuals who want to better understand themselves, relationships and what it takes to build something healthy and lasting.

  • 10 live weekly virtual coaching sessions
  • Digital participant workbook
  • Practical tools, exercises and assessments
  • Access to the Built to Last participant community
  • Session recordings for 30 days

Invest in yourself before asking someone else to invest their life in you.

Join the Individual Stream

Covenant

Couples Stream

£347

per couple

For dating, engaged and married couples who want to intentionally build stronger foundations, deeper understanding and greater connection together.

  • 10 live weekly virtual coaching sessions for both partners
  • Two digital participant workbooks
  • Practical couples exercises and assessments
  • Access to the Built to Last participant community
  • Session recordings for 30 days
  • Priority Q and A
  • One 30-minute couple check-in with Dr. Temi and Pst Abi

Do not simply hope your relationship will last. Learn how to build one that can.

Join as a Couple

Want to go deeper

Legacy The VIP Experience

Some couples want more than the group experience. They want greater access, deeper personalisation and the opportunity to work through the specific dynamics of their relationship with us. Legacy combines the complete Built to Last programme with private coaching and personalised support.

You receive everything in the Couples Stream, plus

  • 2 private 60-minute coaching sessions with Dr. Temi and Pst Abi
  • A Personalised Relationship Action Plan
  • Priority access and support
  • Lifetime access to Built to Last programme recordings

The programme gives you the framework. Legacy helps you apply it personally to your relationship.

£797

per couple

Choose Legacy

Prefer something completely personal

Built to Last Bespoke

Not every relationship needs a group programme. Some situations require greater privacy, deeper personalisation or concentrated attention on a particular issue.

Built to Last Bespoke gives you direct access to Dr. Temi and Pst Abi for confidential relationship coaching tailored specifically to you or your relationship.

£225

per 60-minute session

Suitable for individuals and couples seeking focused coaching outside the 10-week cohort experience.

Enquire About Bespoke Coaching

Why Built to Last

We are not teaching marriage simply from a textbook. We are teaching from a life.

We are Dr. Temi and Pst Abi Odejide.

For 25 years, we have been building a marriage together.

Not a perfect marriage. A real one.

We have loved, learned, disagreed, grown, changed, raised a family, navigated different seasons and kept learning how to choose and understand one another through them.

Along the way, we have also spent years teaching, mentoring and coaching individuals and couples through the realities of life and relationships.

Built to Last brings together lived experience, professional coaching expertise, practical relationship intelligence and biblical wisdom.

But here is something important:

We are not inviting you to copy our marriage. We want to help you intentionally build yours.

Because no two relationships are identical. But there are principles, skills and practices that make healthy, enduring relationships more likely. And some lessons are far less expensive when you learn them before the crisis.

Our approach

Biblically Grounded

We believe God’s wisdom provides a powerful foundation for understanding love, covenant, identity, intimacy, forgiveness and commitment.

Psychologically Informed

We engage seriously with emotional intelligence, relational dynamics, attachment, communication, behaviour and the realities of how human beings actually relate.

Practically Applied

Insight without application changes very little. Built to Last is designed to move you from “I understand” to “I know what to do differently.”

This is not ten weeks of lectures. This is coaching for real relationships, between real people, living real lives.

What could 10 weeks change

Perhaps more than you think.

You can spend years discovering relationship principles through disappointment, misunderstandings, repeated conflict, painful mistakes and trial and error. Or you can become intentional about learning now.

  • Imagine understanding patterns you could not previously name.
  • Having language for conversations you have struggled to have.
  • Recognising what makes you withdraw, pursue, attack, defend or shut down.
  • Understanding your partner rather than simply reacting to them.
  • Knowing how to repair after conflict instead of allowing every disagreement to become another brick in a wall.
  • And having a clearer framework for the kind of relationship you actually want to build.

Ten weeks will not make your relationship perfect. But it could profoundly change how you build it.

Your first step starts here

Built to Last

Building Relationships That Stand the Test of Time

10 Weeks. 10 Live Virtual Sessions.

First Cohort Begins the Second Week of January 2027

Foundation
£197
Individual Stream
Covenant
£347
Couples Stream · per couple
Legacy
£797
The VIP Experience · per couple
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